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Marital happiness like a disk of honey Nhltan adopted, and the more effort the increased sweetness of the Shahd, and many are asking how to create happiness in their homes, but what they fail to achieve the bliss of family and stability.
There is no doubt that the responsibility for marital happiness is the spouse, there must be a love between the spouses. It is not intended reckless love that feeling which suddenly becomes inflamed and turns off suddenly, but the consensus is that the spiritual and emotional sense of noble between the spouses.
The Home Sweet Home does not stand to love alone, but must be followed by a spirit of tolerance between the spouses, and tolerance can not be achieved without the exchange of trust and confidence between the parties. And cooperation is a key factor in creating a happy home, and otherwise undermine the values of love and tolerance. And cooperation is morally and materially. The first is to the good will of the spouses to resolve what is being offered to the family of problems, most of the discord caused by lack of appreciation of one spouse to the other trouble, or lack of redress for human partner.
We can not enumerate the key factors in creating a happy home not to mention the homage to chastity and humility, it is the center of a decent life, and the origin of the good in human relations.
It was written by scholars of the meeting said: "We Dltinay experience that the best slogan might take couples to avoid discord, that there is no fire can not be extinguished fires at the start of a cup of water .. because most marital disputes that end in divorce due to trivial things evolve gradually until irreversible "and that responsibility lies in creating a happy home-parents, they often destroy the house, sharp tongue, or print speeds up to a sharp quarrel, and often destroy the pillars of happiness household love to dominate or lack of sincerity by one of the parents and the little things in the building, great in the sense .
Hack and some of those commandments that contribute to the happiness of your husband:
1. Your wife does not waver, any insult directed to it, remain entrenched in her heart and mind. The most serious insults that can not your wife that you Ngfarha her heart, even if you Ghafrtha tongue is that react detriment, or _imha or curse father or mother, or the accused in the display.
2. Better you treat your wife better to you, made her feel that you prefer on yourself, and you are keen to I.e.a, and the Governor on her health, and they sacrifice for it, are sick, for example, what you are capable of.
3. Remember that your wife like to sit down to talk with them and to every thing that comes to your mind of affairs. Do not return to your home frowning face surly-natured, silent, dumb, it raises the anxiety and uncertainty.
4. Do not impose on your personal interests on your wife your culture or your specialty, you're the professor of astronomy for example, do not expect to have the same interest in the stars and the universe.
5. Stay straight in your life, is not as well. In effect: "Sorry, Your wives are spared" Tabaraani. And beware of thine eyes to that which is not permissible for you, whether it be on the road or in front of the TV screen, and the worst thing that brought him from the satellite marital problems.
6. Never Never jealous spouse, remember that from time to time that you submitted on the marriage of others, or show you like one of the women, the challenge in her heart at the heart of the cordiality and stir waves of anxiety and doubts and misgivings. And often those feelings manifest different physical symptoms, from headache to the pain here and there, if the husband takes his wife from a doctor to a doctor.
7. Do not remember your wife defects are issued in certain situations, and attaches to those errors and Almaib, especially in front of others.
8. Change your behavior from time to time, it is not only required that you modify the behavior of your wife, and you continue clinging to what you are, and avoid much to the chagrin, even if your wife is a joke.
9. Acquired the good offices of the attributes of your spouse, how many men increased commitment to his religion when he saw his wife holding religious and moral values, and the decisions by the actions of Semitic.
10. Keep calm, do not get angry hatred and anger the basis of hatred. The mistake about your wife apologized to them, do not sleep that night and you are angry, including a sad tears. Remember that what angered him - in most cases - is not worth the measly disturb your marriage, and does not need all this emotion. Seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Shaytaan, and chill Thortk, and remember that what is between you and your wife and love of the links is much higher than that Tdnasseh transient moment of anger, emotion or revolution emergency.
11. Give your wife's confidence in itself. Does not make it a place in the Mejrtk and maid to access your orders. But encouraged them to have integrity and thinking and decision. A_i_rha in all your affairs, and Interview by, but one that is better, take its decision when you know that make more sense, and told her so and violated by public opinion to think Vasrvha gently and courteously.
12. To pay tribute to your wife when you are done a commendable job, the Messenger peace be upon him says: "Whoever does not thank the people did not thank God," narrated by al-Tirmidhi.
13. Stop cutting and routing reprimand, and compare them with other women who admire them your siblings and you want to Ttakzhn ideals are in Ovehin, and gasping in Oakabhn.
14. Try to provide them with the potential that encourages them to persevere and the collection of knowledge. If they are to achieve them obtain a certificate of a branch of knowledge officer to do so as long as it is not inconsistent with the principles of religion, not distract it from its obligations of marriage and household. The response with the progress of the success of your wife as you do.
15. Listened with interest to your wife, that works on clearance, which ran from the concerns and suppressions, and avoid the excitement and disbelief, but there are of women can not stop to speak, or feed her to condemn your parents or your kin, you must then treat it with wisdom and good counsel.
16. I am your wife that it is safe from any danger, and you can not overdo it, or to separate them.
17. I am your wife that you sponsor sponsored economically affordable, whatever the case, does not covet the wealth inherited from her father, is not permissible for you to legally take over the money, it does not skimp on the grounds that it rich, no matter how rich it is in the psychological need to feel that you are the real alternative to her father.
18. Beware of social relations is not permissible. Many of the destruction of homes of those originating in marital relations.
19. Harmonized between your love for your husband and your love for your parents and your family, then dominated by the on the side, does not control at the expense of love of love another. Wanted, so give everyone his right manner, and Alkstas rectum.
20. Be your husband as you would like to be is for you in all areas of life, she likes you as you love them. Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with them: I like to Otzin of women as I like to adorn herself for me.
21. Give her a great deal and good fraction of entertainment outside the home, as a form of change, especially before children have the same concern to them.
22. Share them with love and compassion that Charkk it, counting the people and maintained a relationship all the affection and respect towards her family.
23. Do not make them jealous of your business Buncgalk it too much, do not let it accounts for all of your time, especially on vacation this week, do not deprive them of the time you leave, whether at home or abroad, so do not feel bored and toxic.
24. If out of the house Vodaha smile and a prayer request. If I do not even surprise it would be ready to meet you, and lest be the case do not like to see them, especially if you are coming from travel.
25. With her to see life from the perspective of one .. has recommended the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him in women saying: "Attach Balquarir" Narrated by Ahmad in his Musnad, saying: "Women are the twin halves of men" Narrated by Ahmad in his Musnad, and saying: "Be kind to women well" Narrated by Bukhari.
26. Try to help your husband in some of its home, we have reached good intercourse Prophet peace be upon him by helping them to donate to his wives in their household duties. Said Aisha, may Allah be pleased about: "The peace be upon him be in the profession of his family - means the service of his family - if prayer came out to pray," narrated by Bukhari.
27. Try to turn a blind eye on some of the shortcomings of your spouse, and remember what their pros and high cover this shortfall for saying peace be upon him as narrated by Muslim, "Let no (ie, not hate) a believing woman that dislikes one of her pleased with another."
28. The husband to his wife and gentle stroking, and busin Messenger of Allah peace be upon him this: "so you could play and Tlaabk?" Narrated by al-Bukhari, and even Omar Bin Al Khattab may Allah be pleased with him - a strong very hard in his - he said: "A man should be his family by individuals like (ie in the company, easy), the elite was in was a man. "
29. Listen to your wife's criticism with an open mind, it was the wives of the Prophet peace be upon him Iradjanh of opinion, not anger them.
30. The best to your wife and your children, the Messenger peace be upon him says: "The best of the best to his family," narrated by Tirmidhi, well done to them is you do good to you and changed your life miserable happily and comfortably, do not skimp on your husband and yourself and your children, and spent a reasonable basis, Vinvaqk on your family charity. He said peace be upon him: "The best dinars dinar spent on
your family ..." Narrated by Muslim, Ahmad
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